Hey guys, sorry it took so long for me to reply, i've been busy and plus the whole time zone thing...Thanks a lot for the advice, it really helps a lot.
Also, I play like rock music and that kind of thing so that might help with your advice...
Btw guys, call me Jay, not Baseballfan >_>
EDIT: Maybe I should've been more specific...i'm not exactly in a band, it's more like just me and my friend (he's a guitarist) and I don't really know any drummers that I can work with...