[quote name='PaulGibsonBass' timestamp='1465462825' post='3068369']
What can we do? They don't seem to want to discuss it, we can't force them to change their name, we haven't registered the name so I guess we have no legal right to it. Any one else ever been in this situation?
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My current band is called Velcro Pelmet, so no.
Get all your mates to get in touch with them assuming they're you. eg "Can't wait to see you at *upcoming venue you're playing*!", "Really liked *your song here*, hope you play it next time!" "Your drummer *insert name* is really hot, is he single? let him know I'll be at your next on *insert date*" etc