My wife is wonderful. Her life revolves around music too (she's a Music Therapist & plays piano, clarinet, guitar & sax) and she fully accepts that music and playing music keeps me sane. She answers all my music theory questions and I manage to regularly update my collection of basses without too much resistance. In fact she has in the past provoked me to buy a bargain Spector or two....
She can identify a Spector, Fender P, Fender Jazz, Rickenbacker and Stingray...... and points them out to me.
She comes to many of my gigs, fully supports me & even packs down my basses and helps load the car/van.
basically, she's great and I'm extremely lucky :wub: