I left my last band due to the intensive workload, which only showed signs of increasing (and looking at their current schedule, even past COVID it has). I loved being in that band, the guys were great, and I achieved more in that band than in any other band throughout my playing history. It was difficult but I had to take the right decision for me, I was permanently exhausted, the only time I felt physically & mentally ok was when on stage, it was affecting my work - mainly through moods of being shattered - so I had to leave. Hurtling up & down the length & breadth of the country every weekend, and hopping onto planes/ferries, staying away from home in hotels sounds great - and it is - but as I got older I just couldn`t do it any longer. Sadly that band happened 10 years too late for me, if I were nearing 47 rather than 57 I`d still be in it. I`ve still not gone to see them at a gig either, it would be like watching your ex, who was the love of your life, be with someone else, am not ready for that yet.