From an old git...
Being in a band should be a FUN and fulfilling experience. Even when it's a serious proposition, looking for a deal etc.... but..... like ANY relationship, sometimes it's amazing, but often times its f******* hard work, and difficult to manage the different personalities.
Like relationships you generally get a gut instinct when it isn't right, and when it's time to cut and run. IF you think it's worth fighting for, fight for it.
Bands are hard.... been there, still doing it, still looking for a deal.
Life is short. Enjoy it, enjoy playing. There's no time for anything else.
Russ.