My point, such as it was, was exactly that. String spacing is only a factor for some folks, not all, as is demonstrated by the playing equally well, and with equal comfort, instruments with very different spacings, of which I listed a few. Some folks (yourself included, it would appear...) prefer to find the spacing the same; others just play whatever the instrument has, and adapt their technique to that.
For my part, I've never even thought to measure the spacing on any of my basses or guitars, and if I have to play someone else's drums, I seldom find it necessary to raise or lower the snare. I just go with whatever's there, and change accordingly (within limits, of course...). Maybe I'm just not fussy..?
No big deal, no criticism; merely an observation.