What 'everyone else' gets, or not, is, to me, irrelevant, and smacks of jealousy or envy. Look after one's own needs and desires, and give 'everyone else' the freedom to choose for themselves what they get, or not. How would that work, the other way round..? Everyone does what they do for free, but the artists get paid. Is that any different..? I think not. Our band play for free (we always have...), whatever the event and its organisation. We're not looking over our shoulder to see what others are getting, or not.