[quote name='Skybone' timestamp='1403612569' post='2484435'] 
Ever tried helping him get the drums set up? 
 
You could help load in, get stands up & place cymbals so he can get them set up for him, you could get drums & cymbals out of cases, hi-hat stand etc, etc. While he's faffing about getting them all into position, you can set your gear up. 
 
Being in a band is a team effort after all, so if everyone pulls together as a team, all good for the "common cause", which is why you are all in a rehearsal room together in the first place... surely? 
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This.