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Its odd but i've experienced this too where audience seem to love every song, the band are enjoying and yet i hear things that aren't quite right and when i mention it i'm told "ach the audience will never notice that" but some do and historically we always aimed for perfection every rehearsal and gig. Luckily the same things don't happen every time but it does annoy me more than the rest of the band. Dave

where in Wishaw Lee ? Found it ........ Bar 6. Have fun tonight mate and remember to breath in tight as it gets very tight in there when a band is on. Seems to be doing well and taking a bit of business away from Girdwoods these days. Mate from The Led Zep Story Jack Nimmo helps out a lot with bands in there and does a lot of jam sessions in it. Dave

Yep i've driven that road. It aint great. Dave

Ouch but she has the upper hand there i'm afraid. Don't envy you that one. Hope she was ok for her shift. Have to ask why she does a 14hr shift. I thought the max in any one day was 13hrs with 11 hrs away from work. Obviously NHS is under a lot of pressure and i'm guessing that's the reason. Dave

Now that is a dream gig. Certainly beats 2.5hrs. Dave

Life in a gigging band. Cannae beat it. Dave

Lewis being the next village i just assumed you would know everyone in Harris

Living the dream in Outer Hebrides. Got friends in Northton on Harris altho i haven't seen them in a lot of yrs but have stayed at their house a few times when it was just a holiday home but they now live there permanently. Donald drives some of the local buses now i believe. Dave

So sorry to hear this @Gasman our thoughts are with you. Dave

Superb stuff Neil. Good ending to this thread. Maybe you could post a NBD review on it for us all. Dave

After gig its usually a request for photos, then a quick change from Glam to normal gear. Pack up, load cars, if not already done get paid, jump in car and open a bag of peanut M&M's for the drive home. Get home have a coffee and 2 tea biccies to dook, watch TV for a bit maybe 30mins max then bed calm, relaxed and tired. Dave

That;s more or less what we use. Allen & Heath desks. We have 2 digital and 2 analogue ones. I large and one small from each type. We also have QSC K12's for Punk band or smaller gigs. KW153's for the Glam band and up to venues with 150-200 people and a pair of KW181 subs that we very rarely use. The 12's are fairly lightweight at 20Kg 15's are 40Kg Subs are 38Kg The sound from them all is superb altho i prefer the 15's for vocals. They just seem to produce a warmer overall tone but they are bulky and heavy but you wouldn't need bass bins with them. The 153 cabs are 3 way and can handle just about anything. I believe the 12's could handle a fair old bit as well but we only put vocals thru them. Dave

I lug both the QSC KW153 Powered cabs at 40Kg each plus they are quite tall at 43" x 19" x 17" and awkward to lift and tilt into the back of an estate car. Lifting straight up and down is easy but walking a distance or the tilting thing is extremely hard on the old back. I also have lightweight Mesa cabs at 20Kg each so they are a skoosh to lift, i've even lifted one in each hand to the gig but that just makes it awkward getting thru doors Amp is a class D Ampeg SVT7 so that's a bonus too. My back up amp is now my Handbox WB-100 at 13Kg which aint too bad. I do have a portable trolley for all the cabs to be fair. We are looking for someone to help with the gear, ideally a SE who can do the PA and collect the Subs that we haven't really used cause we need a van if we take them. Think that ideal person is a dream wish list more than anything as i reckon people just don't do that these days. Dave

When we started off we all agreed 2 gigs a month with Glam band. The punk band was doing much the same. Over past 2 yrs things have changed dramatically with both bands. Glam band is getting inundated with requests to book now and we are playing almost every weekend this year whereas the punk band is dwindling away as venues and audiences just aren't there. Lucky if we do a gig every 2 mths. Its that bad we no have to fit in a rehearsal before a gig as we haven't played for so long. Not sure where that's gonna end up. I have made it perfectly clear that if it starts feeling like a chore or a job then i'll probably walk away. Its a hobby for me that i enjoy and no more. Apart from Dec i won't do 2 gigs in a weekend as it is just too much for me as i keep the larger PA cabs and have to load and unload them on my own plus wearing all the glam gear makes you sweat a lot and a gig is quite tiring. If the gigs are nearby and PA supplied i'm ok with doing 2 in a row. Luckily i'm not the only one in the band that feels that way so at the moment things are good and i'm enjoying it. Dave

Much the same here Daryl. I use Sat Nav these days so rarely get lost now. Hearing is ok with a little tinnitus but manageable. Rig issues on a regular basis altho more so with the sound effects board i use with Glam band. Bass rig i have forgotten the volume on occasion too LOL Can't say i've had the experience with the flashing altho a mates girlfriend used to do that every sat night after she had a few drinks and in those days girls didn't need a bra for support All pretty normal for us oldies Daryl. Maybe you're over thinking the age thing. Our drummer turned 65 last week and he's never given age a thought really until he saw the 65 on his birthday card and it dawned on him he was getting old but he's ok about it. At the end of the day i'm 64 and i still feel as daft as i did when i was in my 20's big difference is i'm sober these days Just forget the age thing cause you don't look 70 mate and enjoy life and the band. Life is for living not regretting. Dave

Could only see the first row until the stage lights went off and that was all that was there Dave

I don't usually drink Daryl and because of where i live in countryside i need to drive to go anywhere but i've found thru experience that i don't need to drink to enjoy myself these days. Yes i appreciate a few beers does loosen you up a bit and can relax you more so that you get more involved but its not a requirement for enjoyment. My wife and i are both relatively shy people and prefer our own company to that of others but we still go out and meet up with others on occasion but generally not the band members and that's probably because we all stay far apart and meet up for gigs. Guitarist is 1.5hrs drive from my house. Drummer 30mins drive Singer Mikey is 1hr drive Singer Lynn is 45mins drive Public transport for myself and drummer is a bit of a laugh. One bus an hr for me to get to the nearest town 8 miles away. Drummer's bus service is one bus every few hrs to my nearest town. Public transport just isn't practical in that respect so we end up driving. The band used to meet up at service stations on motorways for a chat and a coffee but when they prohibited parking to 2hrs at service stations and i got a ticket for being 10mins over we stopped doing it. I was there first by about 10mins and the others didn't get a ticket at all. Life on the road I wouldn't make too much out of socialising with other band members. Its not a deal breaker and i appreciate you might feel left out a bit but as long as the band is working then no sweat. If all else fails and next time you are out for a coffee with the guitarists parents tell them about her outrageous behaviour for a laugh With regards your girlfriend flashing .......... if she's got it, flaunt it. Be proud of her. Its no worse than going topless on the beach. (I'm assuming it was a top half flash ) Dave

Great stuff Mickey but what is PHB with one cab ? Not heard this before. Its possibly an age thing LOL Dave

I remember reading somewhere from a band member that they only ever see the first couple of rows of an audience. I've played gigs like that where all i can see thru lights and smoke machine is the front row and had no idea how busy it was until the break and the stage lights went off. I'm now at a ppoint with the Glam band that the audience size doesn't really make a difference. Most people are there for a fun / enjoyable night out so just look at the front row and enjoy it same as any other gig. You'll be fine Daryl, you have more than enough experience in gigs that it wont even be an issue on the night. Above all have fun, enjoy and appreciate the experience for what it is ........... a great gig. Dave

I have no gigs in April either except for our drummers 65th birthday party where both our bands will play an hour set each. Its the same female singer, drummer and me in both bands. The drummers mate owns a large 8 bedroom house that he rents for holidays. He lets him have it for weekend for free. Other than that one singer is on hols start April and the other is away end April all planned around the birthday weekend of course. I live 25mins away and don't really bother drinking so i just drive home each night after the party time. I also don't socialise with the band members outwith doing the gigs. Its difficult finding a band you will be happy in and not everything has to be 100% perfect in your head. You seem to enjoy playing with the bands so i don't think walking away is a wise move both financially and the fact you would then be starting afresh looking for another band that might be full of a**h***s that will drive you up the proverbial wall. So there isn't a lot of the "mates getting together" thing that was popular when we were younger but does that really matter. ? Have you considered asking them to meet up for a coffee or a beer and a blether. Perhaps they don't want to pester you because of the age difference and who knows maybe they think you might not want to go for a beer or a coffee and prefer to keep yourself to yourself or even your own age group if that makes sense. I know of several bands that only meet up for gigs, I'm quite happy with that TBH as i like my own company. I have other hobbies outwith the bands so i'm ok with it being a gig only thing. Dave