[quote name='icastle' post='1367460' date='Sep 9 2011, 11:36 AM']Unless you're playing professionaly, there always comes a time where personal commitments, work commitments, money and bandtime all collide.
I don't see this as selfish, there are only 24 hours in a day and there is a finite amount of time and money that you can realisticly commit to spending.
Selfish would have been stringing them along when they could have found someone with fewer commitments and would be around on a long term basis.[/quote]
^^^ This