Yo SS - yes, plenty of out of time drum hits I'm not a great player, and this was after and hour of trying to get a very technical rock song down, but I don't need excuses, i'm not really a drummer.
It's interesting what you say about the toms projecting. I did a demo of a new band i'm in, which is chilled out sort-of-hip-hop. We all played live in the room together, just like a practise, and I was limited for channels and so had no close mics on the toms. The overheads were the main drum sound, and with some compression they sounded great. The toms really cut through in this mix, even though I did nothing to specifically address them.
This room is quite big, and the reverb you get when playing drums is pretty big. I love that sound when we're in the room, so I want to try and capture that. My stereo pair at the back of the room seemed to do that pretty well, however, like 5imon says, the snare does sound quite far back. So, maybe i'll try to carve the snare out of the room mics a bit.
I do have a pair of overheads quite close, and these give a nice overall sound but very dry.
I have a load of matresses in the garage, I might get these out to construct a kick drum tunnel.