I have just bought an Ampeg SCR DI (used and from the Effects for sale section) suits me down to the ground. I plug my iPhone or laptop into it, headphones into the other end and everyone's happy. It also records nicely into my Audient ID14 and Reaper. It works much better than the irig I used to use, and I think there is another one up for sale at the moment.
If I hadn't found that I would probably have got something very similar such as the Harley Benton one which looks very reasonably priced and well reviewed or the TC Electronic Spectradrive.
https://www.thomann.de/gb/harley_benton_custom_line_bass_di_expander.htm?sid=f410180210a10e0afe04bb1fc80359c4
If you are feeling flush and would make use of all the features, the new EBS microamp 3 looks very nice, and would be very versatile.
https://ebssweden.com/content2/effects/ebs-microbass-3-professional-outboard-preamp/