None of my wives or long term partners has been that excited by my chosen lifestyle.
I don't blame them at all.
One came to gigs in order to prevent me murdering the singer en route to the venue. So in a very real way she kept that band alive.
But I have led a self centred life, selfish in my indulgence, myopic to the needs of others. Which is why I will, deservedly, die penniless and alone.
I am a feckin awesome bass player though.