I think I should have been clearer with my rather truncated statement which now that I read it does make me look like a bit of a douche. It has been sometimes true though - in times of trouble I've had to focus on my own situation and be less concerned with the difficulties of others. I don't think I need to apologise for that - I'm not a saint.
But I do need to apologise for being a grump, so, sorry for being a grump. Gen Xers can be grumpy too, boomers - in fact, we'll out grump you, you old timers!
FWIW I try to help people with their physiological needs by helping run and contributing to a community food larder, and it bothers me that it needs to exist at all.