Both my bands are collaborative - everyone mucks in with the setting up and tearing down. I'm not super front foot about getting gigs, but I organise and print out set lists and in the originals band seem to have become chief artwork provider - which is fine because my songwriting has taken a major back seat lately, just don't think I've got that much to say that worth putting to music.
No-one's slacking, everyone's doing their homework, there's no true central "leader" figure in either band, we keep each other honest. Is this weird?