Things are pretty good in our band. I'm under no illusions - it's the singer and guitarist's band and they are the primary creative drive behind the songs - I am just working on making myself as indispensable as possible by being polite, punctual, predictable, useful, handling IT (jazzing up the old MySpace, setting up band calendar online etc.), coming up with my own bass lines and just generally being a nice person. As individuals we all get along pretty good - of course you gravitate towards some people over others, and I'm pleased to have built up a good rapport with our drummer - surely a big help to any bassist.