Thanks for all your stories and suggestions guys, I really appreciate it.
I'm going to go at it the traditional way and put the time in. Playing by feel and ears is where I want to be anyway.
Using the side dots wasn't a problem at first because I was always standing side on, playing Rockabilly. It did become a problem later on when I was playing (ahem...bluffing) some jazz gigs as it led to some nasty neck and shoulder pain as mentioned above.
I'm loving the Discover Double Bass youtube channel - there's plenty of great lessons on there to keep me busy.
Cheers!