It amazes me what total knobs some people can be.
After a couple of similar experiences last year it got to the point where I felt that I really didnt want to gig anymore.
I had one audition and for the following couple of days had numerous e mails from the other band members, telling how I had "totally nailed it" and how my sound fitted right in with them, I had got the gig etc etc. Then it all went quiet, so I mailed the band leader. He replied with an apology that they hadn't been able to get together for a week but it would all be on for the following week.
That was a year ago .
I'm convinced that there are certain people who just like to bullshit, brag and generally bugger others about.
What really gets me riled up though, is that in this age that we live in, it has never been easier, quicker or cheaper to contact each other.
Right I'm off to load the car and off to gig only about a mile from home, with a group of people that I really enjoy playing with and who all communicate with each other and don't behave like total knobs