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I'll start, after more thought you realized the rehearsals and gigs are too far from where you live.
Blue
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If it was the right band, that wouldn't be an issue, only an excuse for some other reason more fundamental and awkward.
Although I realise that we think 100 miles is a long way, whereas you think 100 years is a long time :-)