No need to get your coat. Stick around and you'll find most folks are OK (not that @Teebs fella, but he can't help it π). I think a lot of folks are getting a bit short tempered with lockdowns and no gigging, I know I am.
If you are a beginner then that's great and welcome to the world of bass.
Maybe you could've asked, 'Is it important to be able to play fast?' Or something along those lines, rather than, 'How fast do you need to be able to play to be respected?' A similar question but worded differently comes across better.
It takes time to find your feet in some places, that's all.
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