In the total of 5 gigs I've played, the band I'm in has developed a bit of a standard floorplan:
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This layout basically allows me or the left handed guitarist to walk right forward if we feel the need, and gives us both plenty of space...
Whenever i've made eye contact (EDIT: with the drummer), I don't know if it's his equivalent of bass face (drum fizzog???), but he gives me the worst evils you can imagine, and i don't really know what eye contact would accomplish...
Also, i listen to the snare, not the hi-hat, so i can hear that anywhere i go(if I'm actually listening )