If you are wishing to gig, it sounds to me like you could be wasting time and effort with this band.
A drummer without symbols beggars belief.
Four months rehearsing just 9 songs.
In our area you would have zero chance of getting a gig with only 9 songs, unless it was a support slot to another band.
Does the band have a PA?
I cannot answer your question as what you should do, I would personally walk and hopefully find some other musicians with gigging experience to work with, life is too short.
Sorry if this sounds a bit harsh, but reality sometimes has to kick in.