[quote name='Coilte' timestamp='1490796820' post='3268112']
I accept your point here. If a guy does not want to accept guidance, then there is nothing you can do about this, except to give him what he requires.
I am talking about the scenario where a guy buys a bass for the first time. Next day he goes for lessons expecting to be the next Jack Bruce over night. The teacher needs to incorporate a a balancing act to.. 1. Keep him motivated and interested enough to come back for more lessons. 2. Keep him on the straight and narrow road towards his goal.
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Exactly.
'What do you want to learn', could equally be phrased as 'what do you want or expect to get from having lessons'. Or, 'why are you here sat in front of me ?'
There's a new guy that started with me yesterday evening. Like most people I ask, he said, well I've been playing for X years, and really don't have much knowledge of how what I'm doing works, I just learn a bass line from a recording or YouTube, or TAB.
I would then ask more questions to try and discover what they do know, which is often more than they think.