Yeah, unfortunately, a significant number of the public expect musicians (and others) to be all things to all people and fulfil their expectations. Fulfilling expectations outside of music and performance isn't really a musician's job, outside of realistic limits. One could argue that 'if you don't want the attention, then don't seek the fame' but that just panders to the entitled fanboi. I guess you need the patience of a saint to be nice to every single person who wants a piece of you.... I ain't got it, and I wouldn't expect others to have it either. I'd make a crap rock star!! 😂