The problem with this is usually down to the way that kit is recorded in a studio environment. Winding the volume up causes all sorts of problems for say, as an example, the vocal mic.
Yes you are so right about the sound when the video is watched. In nearly all of my videos I tell the listener to make sure they are at least listening on decent speakers or cans. I've seen plenty of comments where folk just don't understand why things sound dreadful on such tiny speakers. They actually complain that the sound is "tinny" on their laptop. It makes you so pleased that the recordings were made on thousands of pounds worth of high end studio gear!!
Ok, so, It appears that I'm not too far off with what people generally want. I've highlighted the very things we try to do in my own reviews - of course we can't do everything, every time but certainly I do focus on, "No Shred, No Ego, Just Bass". Most bass lines through reviews are Major, Minor or Pentatonic and I try not to cloud judgement with overly busy playing. - and I like to take the time to actually play whilst I demonstrate each control. Yes, we always have a camera on the knobs (not just the one with the bass ha ha)
Hopefully my playing technique is consistent enough that it renders a looper in this case not needed.
Playing with an accompaniment up until recently has been a problem, but thanks to a studio upgrade, that could be a possibility, however constraints in time and costs, I don't know if I'll be offering it this year!
Finally, thank you so, so much for the comments of support. Having a bit of a hard time maself, so this has lifted me. Merry Christmas one and all x