[quote name='lojo' timestamp='1361822256' post='1991559']
Never had an problems from my wife with regard to gear, I've even pondered things and she has said "just get it if you want it"
Having said that she knows I work hard, and am tight and wont throw money away on things I don't need or couldn't recover if needed
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Yep, mine says "you work hard, why shouldnt you?"
She knows I start selling things if I think its getting out of hand or if something isnt working for me.
I dont buy new, ever, I dont have expensive tastes and I usually manage to find something I want on Ebay or here for reasonable money such that I can sell it for roughly the same as I paid. She likes Swarovski, and buys a lot on ebay rather than new, so she applies the same logic to herself (except that you collect that stuff). She doesnt spend loads on herself like clothes, makeup, hair etc, so I have no issue with it. Mutual tolerance.