IMHO being a hobby bassist is the way to go
its all I've ever done and I've never envied any of the pro musos I've known, none of them ever earnt more than I did when I added up my day job and gig fees
so I would get a job or start a self employment but keep gigging as a hobby bassist
You said "Got a small pay off from the ex so she could keep everything and help ease my way into whatever awaited."
why is it always the guy that gets screwed
a mate of mine thinks as a sex we should toughen up especially on breakup
I certainly think any bloke with assets needs to think about protecting them - pre nuptials, trusts, etc