Oh boy.
I take it that you are trying to get a new band up and running then?
I will follow with interest. Blue has put up a few similar topics which have a slightly American bias - rightly enough. It has become apparent that it is quite a different proposition in the UK.
My own plan for a (fantasy) band is a maximum of three (Bass, Keys, Drums) with a core of two members (Bass, Keys/Drum Machine). All members get a mic. At our age it is not nearly as easy to find candidates, let alone pin them down, as when we were young adults with loads of mates who were single.
From what I gather, even social media can't turn flakes into reliable band members.
I met a local keyboardist through JMB who could program drum machines and I thought I'd met a match. It turned out that he wanted to branch into guitar more and took on a dominant stance that put me right off during the first jam. Then there was the six piece band who offered me bassist but were practising too far away. I felt it wiser to turn that down because I would likely become the flaky member who was always late or missing.