I use a Tech 21 VT500 as a back up with headphone out if when ever that is required. But I would put it through my DAW and then hear it that way so I can play back to drums etc and record it etc as a quick turn around
The primary thing for that is, I can use the amp fine with NO SPEAKER attached. Might be food for thought if you are wanting something that can do both as a flexibility. - Then I'll be asking what headphones are you using and so forth....
The ABM I am fully aware of the size, noise and all that. It's function is to push some air with a nice tone . Have a look at the Ampeg Rocket line up! they go from £139 for a 30 watt upwards LINK