I may well have used the incorrect terminology. it was in the Sixties that I went to school and learned about tubes. The result is basically the same: the tube gets progressively damaged.
There ARE a lot of myths, as I said earlier, concerning tube amps. On standby switches, the general consensus appears to be to use them as little as possible. Some folks even suggest not using them at all.
When I'm using an amplifier that has a standby switch I turn the amp on while I put my bass on and then turn the Standby on. Essentially using it as an 'instant on.'
EDIT: Between sets I turn the amp completely off.
As regards moving a warm amp, the folks at the NTSB when probing a plane crash look to see if the filament of a lamp is broken. If it is then the lamp was NOT illuminated. If it's in one piece then it WAS illuminated at the time of the crash. Off topic I know but it does illustrate a point.