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Good morning, Tom , and ...
Plenty to read and amuse you here, and lots to learn and share.
Our youngest (coincidentally also names Tom..!) had expressed an interest in playing bass, a few years ago, but wanted, from the outset, a five-string active bass (I already had 4-stringers, but he wanted his own, so...). We bought him a Cort fiver; shortly afterwards I received as a present from our eldest a fretless 6-string, which Tom immediately adopted, and has played nothing since. He learned fast, and quickly become the 'official' bassist in our pop/rock covers band (I play drums, our eldest guitar, plus two buddies...), playing stuff from Muse, RATM, Deus and much more. The scale length, neck width and lack of frets has not made the slightest difference to his progress; he just went with it and ran, although he's more on the 'slightly-built' side. It can be done, so don't be afraid, just jump in and enjoy the swim.
Just my tuppence-worth; hope this helps.
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Your Tom has both the benefits of youth and a knowledgeable and interested father.
I am old, knackered and self-taught, cursed with cheaty fingerings that get me through but cannot be unlearned.