Thanks to the original poster for raising a timely topic for me. I'm afraid that this is just a run-of-the-mill anecdote, but here goes...
I just got let go after 3 rehearsals because I told the head guy that fiddling around with intros and endings was not such a good idea with the gig being only a week away. We all know that the bass must start and stop with certainty or the song is weak, and he kept making changes to the point where I couldn't remember anything. As a new BP, I could have simply worked on my CD's with my Tascam CD Bass Trainer. But he wanted to recreate the old band's arrangements. Why do people fiddle with hit cover songs, anyway? Just play them the way the dancers know them...
I also suggested to end a song on the F chord instead of A minor which just left the whole song hanging in mid-air, especially on the bass. He was at a loss for the final chord so I opened my big mouth to help...
The band set-list he had given me three weeks earlier indicated the wrong artists and the wrong keys on 8 of the songs... Some songs were not even going to be done... So I learned a slew of songs for nothing. When he suddenly told me at the last rehearsal that we were going to play "Roll With It" in the key of E, after having learned it in G, I explained that it was in the key of G for a reason. (...try it in E on the spot!... lol!)
So I got the email telling me he retrieved the old bass player back to do the gig! "He's a pro...", he says... After I spent gas money, parking money, studio money, 6 hours total driving and 6 hours of rehearsals I got told in an email that someone else, Boomerang Bass Player, Professional is doing the gig ($) and maybe we can pick up later on. All that from someone who was begging for a BP. Who had gone through apparently excruciating auditions within the year only to end up bass-less, so he called my ad.
So I don't know if I was fired or not, but I'm moving on anyway. I wrote them a polite email. However, I sent his email and my reply to all the band members. But... I did learn 31 tunes that I wouldn't have otherwise. Plus getting to play with other old school musicians 'live' in Toronto, Canada is not easy. And the singer was a very charming lady with a superb voice. So I enjoyed the outing. I also got a bit more focused on wanting to keep with the Soul/Motown/Stax music thing and definitely do exact covers only with a female vocalist or vocalists in the future.
Thanks for letting me blow off some steam... And for all you BP's out there who have been used and abused.... We salute you! God works in mysterious ways...+