I just flicked briefly through this interesting thread.
I will read it all though in time .
Sounds like the o p could/ should keep the band he is in , and do a few projects all the while improving his creativity and talent he has.
Myself : because I learnt quite late to play originals IMHO ( 1st gig on my 30th birthday ) , I have been in covers bands on and off over the years. The 'off' bit being when I was always out having beer with no time for the bass at all.
Being on my own and bored of bitchy bands, I got involved in recording stuff.
However, I find it all too laborious and glitchy.
(See my soundcloud / Mac mini threads;) )
I've now got a small Roland combo coming tomorrow , complete with bells and whistles .
( err I mean effects and drum machine and tuner )
This means I could just play with myself so to speak, ignoring the GarageBand etc.
When I'm in the right frame of mind , I will probably seek other musicians to play along with for fun in a tehearsal room . Hopefully a keyboardy person , a drummer and a guitarist.
That should leave me fulfilled
No more mustang Sally / sex on fire/ wishing well for me .
I'll miss playing paranoid though