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IME non-bass players do not have such a discriminate ear and tend only to listen to themselves. Often I've asked a band about a new bass, amp, cab, effect and so on, only to be greeted with, 'hunh?' They're not interested.
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I talk to the guys in all my bands about the sound, feel and balance of the band, and everything else.
I'd be very disappointed if I was in a band that didn't have a considered opinion about all of that or didn't know or care what I sounded like.