[quote name='Jamesemt' post='118566' date='Jan 11 2008, 02:45 PM']I'm in a bit of a funny situation at present - been 'back' playing bass for about 7 months, but have a 13 month old daughter and work shifts, so I don't feel I can give enough time to a band situation - at least not to gig (don't even know if I want to gig anymore...too self conscious, too much of a perfectionist, too many bad gig experiences).[/quote]
You sound like me about 4 years ago. I'd long given up bass because without a band or anyone to jam with, I'd forgotten about it. But three years ago, I got rehearsing with people again and have played in four or five bands since and am loving it. I too have a toddler and a job that likes to think my free time is their work time - so you're not alone!