All of the above strikes a chord. In 2022 my lot were invited to play a monthly residency at a city centre pub in Ipswich 'because we were the best band they had play there'. We asked for £250, they actually paid us £300. In the next 12 months we got a following and started to pack the place out - had a stock of our live CDs, recorded there one night, behind the bar and a signed picture on the wall. Staff were friendly, free drinks, space cleared by the time we got there. Everything was rosy.
Towards the end of the second year our regulars stopped coming. Bar staff changed. No more free drinks. We had to prompt the tables being shifted. The atmosphere in the pub changed - from being a family, music orientated place to the usual revolving door city centre pub with huge screens showing sports. One time we were asked to start at 9.45pm, rather than 9pm, because of some match or other people were watching. Beginning of this year, after playing to an empty pub a couple of times, we mutually agreed with the owner to pull the regular gigs in summer, leaving just 2 more - September and November.
Ipswich for me is 1hr 15mins on a good run. The night of the September gig (a Friday) took me 3hrs 30mins because of unscheduled roadworks on the A12. I was late - we started at 10pm but still played for 2hrs without a break. There was a fight in the main bar, people left. Our last tune we do a segue of the start of 'Money For Nothing' into 'La Grange' and some idiot wanted to start a row over us 'not liking Dire Straits' because we only played a few bars. Stood in front of us staring while we packed up. Once we were clear the guvnor paid us £200 because we started late and he wouldn't listen to reason. So that was that, 3 years of goodwill down the Swanee. We found out that the reason our 'gang' stopped coming was because of the intimidating atmosphere of fights and drugs that was going on in the room behind and, especially, the toilets.
To name and shame, it was the Shamrock, in case anyone is interested.