I'm pretty upbeat about it myself. If I ever damage a new or pristine bass it is purely by accident. Stuff happens. Part of the instrument's history. For me it isn't anything to get precious over.
The only time I had a refin done was one time when I bought a bass cheap and it was a colour I couldn't live with. I tried to refin myself, made it look even worse, ended up with Andyjr1515 bailing me out