Also, I have a thing about really transparent gear. I play a Dingwall and there is NOWHERE to hide with that and it's forcing me to be really super-accurate which I mostly enjoy. It's just literally in the last couple of weeks, maybe when I'm tired and not at my best, that I try to play and I have looked at the bass and the window and thought "so this is why guitarists throw their expensive guitars at their amps."
I'm in two bands. They're lovely people. They are very complementary about my playing and tone and often ask me to turn up, but they don't have any idea what I'm doing! Sometimes they listen, sometimes they get lost in their own worlds. Being fair, the drummers in each band are improving, but it's a rare treat to "click" with a drummer these days.