The best (only) compliment I ever had on bass was from a session guitarist who said "I love how little you play". My algorithm is one 'moment' per every other song, a moment being anything from a short journey to the dusty even if only to play the same part an 8ve up, to some growly E-string stuff, usually a slide up to a Bb or similar. Try to hold down the bottom end but not noticeably so, in fact from a audio POV they should only notice you're there when you stop playing. Visual POV very different of course, DB is THE centrepiece
Don't take too much of that seriously BTW, but it generally works for me 👍