Lol...I'm not convinced it's the volume that's the problem. As I said it's the ultra low frequency of the bass from 2 doors down that affects me really badly (it's the kind of 'music' they listen to)...really upsets my heart rate to the point I've literally had to run out the house jump in the car n go fer a drive till it stops. And since I'm affected I'm assuming maybe my mrs is also affected by bass frequencies I'm producing...although not so ultra low.
Just kinda hoping theres a cheapish solution regarding absorbing the specific frequencies somewhere out there 😉🤣👍