I've never been involved with a woman that hasn't, at some stage, deeply resented the amount of time that music takes up in my life.
Ironically, in the vast majority of these "relationships" the fact that I was a musician seemed to figure quite highly in the factors that made me attractive to the woman in the first place.
They all think going out with someone in a band is dead f***ing cool until they realise how much of your time it takes up.
I've quit bands I was happy with in the past because of the sh*t I got from whoever I was involved with at the time, & looking back without exception I wish I'd chosen the band over the woman.