Me and Mrs B have a perfect way of doing things. She doesn't make, or expect, me do things I don't want to do and vice versa.
I'd never expect her to come to a Sunn O))) or Merzbow gig and she'd never expect me to go and see Bruce Springsteen.
Last year her and a friend went to Australia, for 2 weeks, to go to the Philip Island round of the MotoGP championship while I stayed at home with the daughters and dog. They've previously been to Germany, Czech Republic, Turkey and somewhere else, as well as several UK events.
I get to drive around Europe with friends to see gigs.
Everyone is happy.