It's as much a sociology experiment as it is a musical venture I find. Balancing personalities is more difficult than writing/performing songs.
My lot have packed it in until next year and I'm desperate to get back into a band. But not as desperate as I thought. I've turned down the 4 offers I've had because I didn't hit it off with the prospective band members.
You've got to be happy with your lot in the band. Whether you're the one who gets the gigs, looks after the money, is the musical director, drives the van, makes the tea or whatever. If you're the bass player you probably do the lot