Well, yes to both - sounds awful but the drummer and I really get on, have similar ideas and approaches.
The singer will do things like “send the track over without drums” and then record a really OTT drum take from his electronic kit over the idea.
Again - the ideas/demos he’s done this over are ones I’ve sent as a part of this batch.
But now they don’t “grab” him - ?
At rehearsals, he’ll pick up a guitar, the bass or sit behind the drums and do the “it’s easy this” routine. Very uncomfortable.
When I was explaining all the shenanigans to Mrs T last night, it was actually a long list Of complaints to consider.