To everyone involved, I’m baffled.
I have to make a really clear point - we’re not destitute hand out folk at all - really not.
This is an odd scenario for me and I’m rubbish at accepting help and knowing what to do with it.
As a family we’ve always persevered and somehow managed where we’re at…
I know this is not unique, I know all of you have lives, trials and tribulations.
So I thank you from the bottom of our hearts.
Jenny is knocked out by this - sends her love and thanks.
But we have been sold a “dream” and hung onto it for over 4 years - the reality is, Iris manages most tasks, but has zero independence because I have to carry her upstairs or monitor her climbing (she’s able to do this, but has a very fragile head due to Hydrocephalus so it’s risky) - she cannot get herself onto a toilet etc, so she has to be in Pull ups which she’s now becoming embarrassed about.
We could’ve moved house - but they assured us they could adapt ours with an extension with a lift, sort of a mini house for iris.
I cannot put enough words into this.
I’m stunned.
@Clarky you are a bloody great person.