[quote name='silddx' post='761410' date='Mar 2 2010, 12:44 AM']It's the self-flagellation that's driving me forward.[/quote]
That's good. After each gig I like to review everything that could be improved on the previous performance and I figure out a plan of how to improve it for the next one. Not just for my playing but the whole band. It seems to work pretty well. There's always fewer and fewer things to improve upon gig on gig.
The 3 things to do are:
1. get serious about practice: both technique, just to keep the fingers moving properly, and the tunes, so that you can play them while jumping about on stage like Marty McFly;
2. keep it all in perspective and don't get despondent;
3. try to nail the next gig.