[quote name='Stingray5' post='627002' date='Oct 15 2009, 03:24 PM']Maybe you should put your original post into an email to the rest of your band as you have outlined your anger and frustration quite clearly.
If after reading that, they still don't get the message, then leave them to it.[/quote]
Good call. If you still think the band can be saved, then next time you get an email saying 'is everything ok', 'we would be heartbroken if you left', 'great playing at the last gig' etc etc., reply with "Actually no, I'm bloody not ok and this is why..." and then tell them exactly what you've just told us.
Alternatively if you think it's a dead loss, leave now and join/start something else.
IMHO, if that band was a horse...*BANG*
[quote]Best of luck for whatever you do.[/quote]
Yup, that too.