I did 15 years with my rock/ metal covers band that I started alongside the drummer.
I've had extensive experience managing musicians, and ran a large church worship team (75+) for 15 years, so I had no illusions that it might be a walk in the park.
He always used to say that it was his band, and we would guide the band together, as a partnership.
Songs were chosen on a veto basis - meaning that we would all have a veto as to certain songs that we weren't prepared to deal with.
His were anything Kiss, Motley Crue, Rainbow amoung others. For my part I find most more recent bands bland and uninteresting.
The drummist was very good at loading other people's weapons for them to fire (there were plenty of little hushed conversations at shows where I was setting up lights, PA, monitors etc..)
For the final 5 years, I had been doing all the booking, promotion, and keeping PA and lights functional - And the previous 10 had been a partnership between me and drummer.
We had an issue with a younger singist who was outstanding, but very young and naiive, and had clearly been 'receiving guidance' from said drummist. He told me that it didn't feel like his band anymore.
He told me that it had been brewing for a while when she arrived at a show announcing that it would be her last.
The guitarist we had at the time is very much a go with the flow kind of person, and said very little.
In the end, I find the drummist had set up a band using former members of the band under a different name with a different bassist.
This all happened mid '23 and to date they have had several guitarists come and go, and played one show which was received as being underwhelming.
On the other hand, I have been running a tribute act which is now receiving rave reviews and larger and larger bookings, alongside the originals band which is due to return to Europe again later this year for more shows, and picking up work from all over my area.
Needless to say the band I've been recounting all of this about is no more, and will not return. Lessons learned etc, etc, etc,