NJE Posted January 22, 2015 Author Share Posted January 22, 2015 (edited) Thanks everyone, I am really thrilled and it has been a really positive start to the year. Even selling my main bass didn't cause me too much heartache. I was going to quote replies, a lot of them made me chuckle, but there are too many Some mixed experiences with the playing, I guess a lot will depend on technique and style, I must admit I do have a general issue with anything being around my hands when playing, I don't even like long sleeves, but I am sure I will get used to it. I got an evil look when I suggested not having a wedding ring so perhaps something thin and light might be in order. Its good to know that you get used to it quite quickly, it feels rather alien to me at the moment having never worn rings before. I thought if there were a lot of people saying it caused damage to bass necks, I might have tiny excuse to get a pre-relic'd bass. I don't think I can use that excuse now though. Edited January 22, 2015 by NJE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iain Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 My wedding ring is quite thick so I just don't wear it when I'm playing bass otherwise it clanks against the neck/bottom of frets. More of a problem when I use sloppy technique! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stingrayPete1977 Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 Mine catches a bit but nothing worth worrying about, its the only jewellery I wear. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dieseldalziel Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 I can't wear my wedding ring or watch when playing, or doing exercise..I just feel really uncomfortable Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M@23 Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 Nope, never had any problems. Congratulations :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neepheid Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 No problems here. Depends upon your technique I suppose. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Norris Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 I don't even notice mine any more. No problems playing with it on except you get a little less eye contact from the girls. There again at my age it's hardly surprising Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadofsix Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 When I was married, I chose to wear a ring on my right hand. I was very concious of contact being made to the neck of my bass when wearing a ring on my left hand. Be prepared for some odd questions from the "well informed" if you do decide to wear it on your right hand, though. In some circles, wearing a ring on that finger can signify that you are in a gay relationship. lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skej21 Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 Congrats... Another 'no' and 'no' from me :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave_the_bass Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 I did notice, initially, that I couldn't stretch as far with my ring on as seemed to restrict the elasticity of the skin between my fingers. I'm all back to normal now though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
planer Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 (edited) Congrats mate. My wedding ring has never been a problem, has been there ten years and not got in the way of anything much. It's dead light though as it's made from titanium, to be honest I don't think it makes too much difference as once you've had yours on for a little while you'll stop noticing it. Titanium has all sorts of benefits, it's feather-light, strong and possibly best of all, dead cheap! Mine was about £75 iirc. Edited January 22, 2015 by planer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevvo66 Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 You don't want too be playing with your ring ,try using your fingers or a plectrum lol ,on a serious note you won't even notice as mentioned earlier in the thread ,congrats also in order Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donnyboy Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 Not a problem. But after 26 years my fingers are so fat the ring wouldn't come off without some kind of surgery! Can't wear a watch when playing for some reason.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeystrange Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 I'd never worn rings before and it took me a while to get used to actually wearing one. Played a gig two days after getting married, though, with no issues. Never even noticed it was there. It's never been a problem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ern500evo Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 I've never worn jewellery of any kind so wearing a ring took a bit of getting used to. I started off leaving it at home when gigging, the first gig with it on was when I forgot to take it off, and then I only noticed I still had it on when I was driving home! It'll feel normal in no time for you. Congratulations. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
molan Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 I've seen some damage caused to fretboards and necks where they've been caught by a wedding, or other, ring. If you're not worried about the odd little knock then I'd keep the ring on but if you like to keep your instruments in pristine condition then I'd definitely think about taking it off whilst playing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stingraybassman Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 Congrats, I get married in june and have exactly the same worry! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonnyboy Rotten Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 (edited) Congratulations! I never played bass before I got married but I have played bass since without my wedding ring on and it makes no difference! You will notice when gigging that the only thing women pay less attention to than a bass player, is a bass player with a wedding ring! Edited January 23, 2015 by Jonnyboy Rotten Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neepheid Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 If your wife doesn't go to the gigs, I wouldn't advertise the fact that you're going to take your wedding ring off to go play music in public. Sends the wrong sort of signal, I fear Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pfretrock Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 Never noticed any problem but have nearly ripped my finger off getting it caught (on a door handle, I think). That would not change my lousy playing as I've never been good at OFPF. Mine will not come off now without surgery to ring or finger. Plain wedding band should be OK, just avoid that diamond encrusted skull and you'll be fine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jonnyboy Rotten Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 [quote name='neepheid' timestamp='1422008565' post='2667629'] If your wife doesn't go to the gigs, I wouldn't advertise the fact that you're going to take your wedding ring off to go play music in public. Sends the wrong sort of signal, I fear [/quote] hehe! No I mean't when I practice and occasionally I forget to put my wedding ring on! I'm certainly not saying that I deliberately take it off to go gigging! In fact the only band I am in is my Church band so I was just making a joke! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jus Lukin Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 (edited) - Edited February 22, 2022 by Jus Lukin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neepheid Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 [quote name='Jus Lukin' timestamp='1422010472' post='2667666'] At the age of 36 I've been with my wife 18 years, and married for ten of those. She's fairly confident in my commitment, and by this point I'm so institutionalised I wouldn't know how to get laid elsewhere if i tried! [/quote] I appreciate what you're saying but the OP is just embarking upon married life; my advice was tailored to that situation to be honest. I've been married 6 and a bit years, for reference, and I totally agree with you. My wife's take on the matter - "I wouldn't cheat on you, I'd dump you first". Thanks, darling! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FuNkShUi Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 Congrats!! I take my wedding ring off when i play. It doesnt really effect anything though, it's just what i'm used to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jus Lukin Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 (edited) - Edited February 22, 2022 by Jus Lukin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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