kevvo66 Posted January 17, 2019 Share Posted January 17, 2019 (edited) Well as mentioned above ,great band lovely chaps to boot .these guys have been together along time ,set up then it went tits up big time don't know if I was overwhelmed by it all ,I was awful and I mean awful they play in drop D, I'm a standard eadg type of fella they tried to reassure me it was nerves ,think they were just being nice and asked if I wanted to come back and give it ago again ,I made my excuses and left ,oh balls 🙄 Edited January 17, 2019 by kevvo66 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skidder652003 Posted January 17, 2019 Share Posted January 17, 2019 couldn't have been that bad if they asked you to come back for another go, take 'em up on the offer! 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T-Bay Posted January 17, 2019 Share Posted January 17, 2019 I have seen you play, albeit for a short time, and you were spot on mate. Anyone can have a bad day. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CameronJ Posted January 17, 2019 Share Posted January 17, 2019 3 minutes ago, skidder652003 said: couldn't have been that bad if they asked you to come back for another go, take 'em up on the offer! This. If they didn’t like you they wouldn’t invite you back just to be nice! Clearly you did something right. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pbasspecial Posted January 17, 2019 Share Posted January 17, 2019 Maybe it was just a bad day at the office or you wanted it too much and nerves got the better of you. With all been there. I think you got asked back again because you're a nice guy who they want to work with, can obviously play well but had some brain farts. Try to laugh it off, it's better than beating yourself up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevvo66 Posted January 17, 2019 Author Share Posted January 17, 2019 Thanks guys ,I've been stressed just lately 🤔 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris_b Posted January 17, 2019 Share Posted January 17, 2019 Go back and nail it! Whatever they play in tune up to it and practice like mad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Blank Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 What they all said, back on the horse with you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ubit Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 It's the same when you go into a music shop. The nice friendly assistant asks " would you like to try anything out?" You pick up a nice bass, plug it in and forget everything you know. All the fancy show off bass licks are forgotten, or you have to try them umpteen times to get them right, even although yesterday, you could play it backwards! 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T-Bay Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 9 minutes ago, ubit said: It's the same when you go into a music shop. The nice friendly assistant asks " would you like to try anything out?" You pick up a nice bass, plug it in and forget everything you know. All the fancy show off bass licks are forgotten, or you have to try them umpteen times to get them right, even although yesterday, you could play it backwards! This is so true. I usually struggle to even remember what songs I can play. 2 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest aDx Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 Our first number and first gig this year.... i suddenly got nervous and completely mucked up alright now!! ( i have played it for years!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karlbbb Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 3 hours ago, T-Bay said: This is so true. I usually struggle to even remember what songs I can play. Encouraging to hear I'm not the only one - I've got into music shops to try a guitar and forgotten a basic 4 powerchord progression before! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PaulWarning Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 (edited) 3 hours ago, aDx said: Our first number and first gig this year.... i suddenly got nervous and completely mucked up alright now!! ( i have played it for years!) yep been there, I've even played the whole of Blitzkieg Bop A C D instead of A D E and it was video'd I should add, it didn't sound that bad, not quite right but not obvious bum notes, which is why I probably didn't notice (and I couldn't hear the guitarist) Edited January 18, 2019 by PaulWarning Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikel Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 Agreed, performance nerves are an awful thing. I have always struggled with white coat syndrome ie doctors, hospitals etc,to the extent I put off a minor op 3 times over the last 10 years through sheer terror. I had the op three weeks ago and coped very well with it and I put it down to reading "The Chimp Paradox" by Prof Steve Peters, the psychologist who helped the British track cycling team win so many medals. It really did help me to put things in perspective and concentrate on the process rather than the outcome of a situation. Give it a try its now on library shelves so you don't even need to buy it. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knirirr Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 3 hours ago, ubit said: It's the same when you go into a music shop. The nice friendly assistant asks " would you like to try anything out?" You pick up a nice bass, plug it in and forget everything you know. All the fancy show off bass licks are forgotten, or you have to try them umpteen times to get them right, even although yesterday, you could play it backwards! The last time I went into a shop to try something out I was very pleased that they supplied headphones without my even asking, therefore removing any fear of being embarrassed in this manner. BTW, the one time I did try to play in public last year my mind went blank and I totally cocked it up. But, this was solo; it was always easier playing with other people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ubit Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 1 hour ago, knirirr said: The last time I went into a shop to try something out I was very pleased that they supplied headphones without my even asking, therefore removing any fear of being embarrassed in this manner. BTW, the one time I did try to play in public last year my mind went blank and I totally cocked it up. But, this was solo; it was always easier playing with other people. Thing is, I have played in front of an audience hundreds of times. The largest was about 2000 ( I know, I wasn't big time), so it should be no problem, but I still freeze when I am in a music shop. Fingers get all mixed up and it sounds rotten and you can see the guy thinking, yeah, I can see your level Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ubit Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 2 hours ago, PaulWarning said: yep been there, I've even played the whole of Blitzkieg Bop A G D instead of A D E and it was video'd Man, we used to play in two different tunings ( because of a bloody accordion player, who wanted to play on the white keys) I liked to play E flat for the rest of our set because it sounds meatier, plus easier for the ageing vocal chords. Anyway, it meant changing guitars around, as we didn't want to tune up and back all the time. Started a set for an alcoholics anonymous dance and I had the flat tuned guitar and the song was in standard. I'm the singer, so I had to try and play the song (crazy little thing called love) a fret out, whilst singing. The result wasn't pleasant and I was suitably embarrassed. We managed to save the evening after that, but it was a terrible start! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stylon Pilson Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 6 hours ago, ubit said: It's the same when you go into a music shop. The nice friendly assistant asks " would you like to try anything out?" You pick up a nice bass, plug it in and forget everything you know. All the fancy show off bass licks are forgotten, or you have to try them umpteen times to get them right, even although yesterday, you could play it backwards! When I was bass shopping last week, one of the first things I did after sitting down with a bass was to whip out my phone and bring up my set list. S.P. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knirirr Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 58 minutes ago, ubit said: Thing is, I have played in front of an audience hundreds of times. The largest was about 2000 ( I know, I wasn't big time), so it should be no problem, but I still freeze when I am in a music shop. Fingers get all mixed up and it sounds rotten and you can see the guy thinking, yeah, I can see your level Indeed. Still bigger-time than me - IIRC the largest audience I played to was around 250, but it was jazz so that might be considered a huge crowd. ;-) When doing public speaking (at least in my experience) it's always easy when the audience are people who know little or nothing about the subject and are interested in learning more and/or being entertained, and it's a topic I know well. If they're knowledgeable in it (and worse, if I'm not) and they are waiting for the opportunity to ask "questions" at the end to show their own knowledge then the fear factor ramps up rapidly. Such a treat is in store for me early next month... Perhaps that's a similar situation to what you're facing, with the music shop staff giving the impression of being able to recognise expertise even if they don't possess it themselves. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevvo66 Posted January 18, 2019 Author Share Posted January 18, 2019 I was out of my comfort zone 🤔 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikel Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 1 hour ago, kevvo66 said: I was out of my comfort zone 🤔 Did they give you a list of songs to play during the audition? If so, and you worked on them till you had them down then no, you were not out of your comfort zone. You merely let the situation get to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T-Bay Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 6 hours ago, karlbbb said: Encouraging to hear I'm not the only one - I've got into music shops to try a guitar and forgotten a basic 4 powerchord progression before! I can play about 60 songs perfectly from memory and bits of another 20 or 30, however in a guitar shop I can play sweet child o mine, alive by Pearl Jam and Peaches. Nothing more it seems.............. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevvo66 Posted January 18, 2019 Author Share Posted January 18, 2019 (edited) Their tuning to drop D threw me out but ,they changed some of the songs some of the songs I can play blind folded standing on one leg with a parrot on my shoulder ,perhaps I need a more sedate type of setting a nice jazz band or something like that 😗 Edited January 18, 2019 by kevvo66 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lozz196 Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 33 minutes ago, kevvo66 said: Their tuning to drop D threw me out but ,they changed some of the songs some of the songs I can play blind folded standing on one leg with a parrot on my shoulder ,perhaps I need a more sedate type of setting a nice jazz band or something like that 😗 Did you forget to take the parrot, it may have been something as simple as that. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevvo66 Posted January 18, 2019 Author Share Posted January 18, 2019 That's it lozz ,oh bugger forgot the parrot 😂 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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